Is 2-3 years between ROM and the actual wedding too long?

[jeremail82]

We had our HK wedding last year (wife from HK) and ROM in Singapore around the same time.

But we will only be having our SG wedding at the end of this year. Is this odd?

[kav]

I think it's alright , there is no criteria or requirement you know, just do what you guys feel is right for you

[tuwinkk]

wow..2 years..
i plan to have ROM next August and will have the ceremony June 2014.
Still looking for the place and solemnizer..huh.

[dandelion]

yeah. i really think it's a personal choice. don't worry about it too much. it's what is customary.

[yaniness]

I agree with them. it's really up to you. if that's wat you want, then go ahead.

[huihuis]

I'm not sure if it's appropriate here but I'm just wondering for the ROM right, there's nothing traditional to do until the AD which is few years down the road right?

[stanleysim86]

I think its personal choice. And of course both parents must agree too.. There are also other factors to consider. Like money.. Flat.. Ur preferred date and hotel..

[purpleyheart]

It depends on what you want. and i agree with stanley, you should consider your budget and the place where you're gonna hold your wedding.

[chocopiee]

i think a year or two is just enough.