Any suggestions to mixing Chinese customs with Christian wedding in Tea Reception format

[shuappl3]

Hi Everyone,

I have been vexed about it for long time. Really appreciate if anyone can provide good ideas how to go about do it. Thanks.

Stephanie

[Sher]

hey stephanie, what's the problem that you're facing? is your htb christian or chinese? basically for christians we just dont do the bai to ancestors part, if it's ok with the other side. unless the other side REALLY wants you to bai, if you are comfortable with just doing it for once in your life, I'm sure God will look at your heart la. I hav friends who bai for their whole life to just please the parents so as not to appear that they turn their back on the practices just because they convert.

[Tenshi]

hi shuappl3, what are you vexed about? just go for your church wedding then do your tea reception ... at the same time you can also do your tea ceremony during your tea reception. if not you can do it after your tea reception if time permits.

my cousin did her church wedding then tea reception and during the tea reception she did her tea ceremony and then at night she did wedding dinner.