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    Member kellytan is on a distinguished road
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    Do you keep your spending a secret from your husband?

    i feel kind of bad that sometimes i dont dare to tell him exactly how much i spend on my spas and facials, but if i tell him he will sure nag at me. any btbs here dont tell their hubbies fully how much they spend?

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    Junior Member AlphineJas is on a distinguished road
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    My husband will surely nag at me if i tell him about the shoes i bought and also the spas and stuffs :P

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    Senior Member meilingg is on a distinguished road
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    haha... my hubby knows mostly of my spending and i also knows his too...

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    Member Jecca is on a distinguished road
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    cant tell exact la, otherwise will spoil his day if i tell him i spend money again LOL

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    its good for both to know so that you two can plan together for income and expenses

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    Senior Member melo is on a distinguished road
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    i have been trying to save a lot, but occasionally my spending habits let slip and i spent like $500 1 shot.. omg.. i need him to control me also.

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    Inactive Member samsmith is on a distinguished road
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    Me and my wife both are earning members in our house.

    But my wife shares the spending which she had done in the month. I think there should be mutual understanding between the husband and wife so that it will help to plan and reduce the future spendings.

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    Junior Member elohz is on a distinguished road
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    No, i want him to know all of that so that he'll know where the money goes.

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    it's best to let him be aware of it. and it's good too if you know his spending patterns.

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    Junior Member serenaw is on a distinguished road
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    i think it's dishonesty if you keep your spending habit a secret from your husband. he deserves to know about it, even if you go to salon and spa and shop frequently.

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    Junior Member jballadares is on a distinguished road
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    Hi,

    read from some posts that 2013 is not good for marriage?

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    Junior Member rosesarered is on a distinguished road
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    hi jballadares!

    why? because it ends in 13, which is an unlucky number? well, it only depends on the couple how they will handle their relationship. love can overpower any sort of bad luck

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    hehe i'm a big spender and he knows it. i trying to control myself, but won't be pleased if he wants to control me. he no need to pay for my shopping, but i should be allowed to spend my own earnings! if he will be angry with me for spending my own money i don't think i want this kind of guy!

    but as i said i'm controlling myself so i can pay for the wedding and gown. :P

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    No matter how much I spend, I tell my hubby. I don't want him to feel that I'm keeping things from him. We both earn so we are both honest about where we spend our money.

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    yea we know the spending of each other but sometimes if he nv asks, i dun say :p
    and for purchases above $500, we will seek approval from each other before buying..haaa

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