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20-06-2011 05:02 PM #16
Both MIL and granny advised 3 months!
However, it really depends on individuals. I've friends who attended each other's wedding and all is fine! I'm not a huge fan of superstitious so do whatever your heart feels!
21-06-2011 11:04 AM #17
I guess its true that ur close friends only get married once in their life. So it will be a pity if I wont be able to attend!
28-07-2011 12:32 PM #18
very stressful, if she's my good friend, i have to be her jiemei also! and prepare for my wedding at the same time!
28-07-2011 02:01 PM #19
That's true! But at least both of you can prepare together! Share some ideas (just make sure both weddings are not tooo similar!)
28-07-2011 03:45 PM #20
this year and next year is quite crazy for me, i have 3 friends weddings to be their jie mei!! already helping them for their wedding is quite hectic already, I think i will go crazy if i have to organize mine also!
31-07-2011 05:19 PM #21
Like how to convince older folk that the 3mths thing wun clash? Or any other way to resolve the so called 'clash'?
01-08-2011 11:43 AM #22
is the 3 months before or after? or both? or 1.5 before 1.5 after?
01-08-2011 12:54 PM #23
i think it depends? My friend told me it's before ur wedding, u sldnt attend others. But never heard of the one after? Also, i guess it also depends on the couple who is getting married? If there are super traditonal, I think they wont wanna invite u/ their parents wont wanna invite u if u are going to get married/just married. So not to clash both "luck"
03-08-2011 07:48 PM #24
my htb is quite pan tang on tis matter.. so we wun be attending any red or white events 3 mths before n 3 mths after our wedding..
we haf 2 friends gettin married 2 mths before us, we told them tat we will nt be attending theirs, n we will also nt invite them to ours..
08-08-2011 10:21 AM #25
all these will depends on individual la. like my friends both their wedding is just 2 months apart but then they also attended each other wedding. best of all they do each other jie mei too hahahah.
well they have been married for 10 years now ... everything seems ok leh...
as long as both getting married couple know and agree to attend or not to attend can liao.
06-01-2014 01:40 PM #26
oh yeah. i think i will attend when i'm not very busy with the wedding planning and once i'm assured that everything is going smoothly.
06-01-2014 04:01 PM #27
it would depend on the date or schedule of the wedding. but i'll most likely pass since i might still be busy preparing for my own wedding around that time.
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