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    Senior Member emilyy is on a distinguished road
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    Invite workplace boss and colleagues to wedding?

    hi brides, i'm feeling a little pressurised by my boss to invite my workplace colleagues and them, but i only want to have a small ceremony. Is it necessary to invite them? I'm not very close to them, just joined the company for a few months.

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    Member Lindah is on a distinguished road
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    try rejecting them nicely and say that it's a small affair? If they are polite enough they won't probe more. I know of some bosses who can be quite imposing though.

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    Junior Member myvivee is on a distinguished road
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    I think its okay not to invite your whole team , But i think its a must to invite your boss

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    I have always believed that it is up to the couple who they would like to invite. It is your big day, do not fret about this! In reality, we can't make everyone happy. If you are obliged to give them a reason as to why they are not invited, you can politely say that it is a small dinner, a close gathering for your families.

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    yeah, maybe you could invite your boss only.

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    well if that's the case, i think it's just fine if you don't invite them.

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    i didn't invite my colleagues and boss. i felt that if i did, our wedding wouldn't be that intimate anymore.

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    hmm. it's okay if you're close with them or if you have a big number of estimated guests.

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    Member mscathniss is infamous around these parts
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    Yeah, for me, I invited my close colleagues and my boss at work. Just so happens that we included them in the number of estimated guests.

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    Member missanalee is infamous around these parts
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    well, if you're planning to have an intimate wedding with just some friends and relatives then i guess it's alright that you don't invite them.

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    Member loveleevanilla is infamous around these parts
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    if you are really close to them, you may.

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    Member goldielocks is infamous around these parts
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    if that's the case, i think it's just alright if you don't invite them.

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    Member merryjane is infamous around these parts
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    if you are really close, then you can but if not, it's really understandable.

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    Member prettydresses is infamous around these parts
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    If you are really close with them then why not? but otherwise, I think it would really be up to you.

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    If you have a friendly relationship with them and it can fit your budget then it's fine... depends on you

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