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    for me, bridal, photography, banquet 40/60, the rest htb pays for them =p he earns more than me anyway so he shud pay more

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    thats what my HTB told me too! (Our joint account is more for future household expenses and downpayment for the house) Wedding wise, it's 40/60

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    The HTB has to pay for the engagement ring! Other than that, we are ok sharing the expenses for everything else. The prospect of getting married = needing to start sharing finances. Still adjusting!

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    he pay lah...he has more money than me wat...i give wat i can lor

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    I wanna be tai tai haha so I help out in paying for part of the wedding while he takes care of the house repayment

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    We have decided to share the costs equally which is fair as long as we also agree on the budget that suits our financial status

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    yah lah, just gotta decide on the budget you both want then see which is the way both of you can agree to lor...very important de...otherwise later if argue over this part not very good le

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    what about wedding bands? i pay for him & he pay for me??

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    50/50. You should go into the marriage as equal partners.

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    often the guy has earned more than the girl, so usually they pay more. that's what i noticed with my friends

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    That's a great reply!

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    Quote Originally Posted by poshberries View Post
    Hi, as much as my heart is telling me that the guy should be the only one forking every cent out for my wedding. My mind is telling me otherwise. My boyfriend & I will be saving together for our joint account. We save 50% each monthly into the bank. However sometimes if my other half is tight on budget, I do not mind saving more. I do not think it is a big concern if your other half is not earning alot. This will ease him or her off the burden. Since you & your partner have decided to come together for a marriage, I do not think you should feel it is his or her anymore. A couple should be able to go through thick & thin and share burdens together. Instead of being calculative of who will fork out or save more. If you have this mindset now, what will become the future then? In the near future, I truly believe you & him will even have to encounter more financial issues. So if you can put this matter asside, I am very sure if one day you need his help, he will be more than willing to lend you his best. Hope this helps. Thanks!
    That's a great reply!

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    Amara Sanctuary Resort anyone?

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    eh wrong area ? anyway if u want info of A.S pm me ba... i know Jason from A.S very helpful guy ...

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    guess split proportionally

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