Pregnant after ROM and before customary wedding?
    
 

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  • Before ROM and Customary Wedding

    2 20.00%
  • After ROM, before Customary Wedding

    2 20.00%
  • After both

    6 60.00%
  • Never get pregnant (many years after both)

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    Senior Member carlise is on a distinguished road
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    Pregnant after ROM and before customary wedding?

    Hello brides, when did you get pregnant? Poll as above.. Will you wait till customary wedding is over then have baby?

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    i'm also thinking, for those who ROM then 1 year later customary wedding, if get pregnant in the meantime then how ah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by purpledino View Post
    i'm also thinking, for those who ROM then 1 year later customary wedding, if get pregnant in the meantime then how ah.
    wahahaha~
    Actually my HTB and I was planning to have a dragon baby... But our customary will only be next year March...

    Is it obvious during the actual day if I happen to be 1 or 2 month pregnancy?

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    meilingg: quite hard to plan so exactly one leh!! 1-2 months cannot see. My friend got married when she was 4mths preg, also most people didn't know! But that is very risky.. if you're very skinny then 3+ i think can see ler..

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    Quote Originally Posted by rojak View Post
    meilingg: quite hard to plan so exactly one leh!! 1-2 months cannot see. My friend got married when she was 4mths preg, also most people didn't know! But that is very risky.. if you're very skinny then 3+ i think can see ler..
    yup yup, i koe very hard to be so exact...
    i shall see how it goes... still long.. haha!

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    Senior Member carlise is on a distinguished road
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    ideal is after both.. but many couples will want dragon baby haha. my parents are very traditional, so they say only after customary wedding then can get pregnant! T.T although actually after ROM, you and your hubby are already a married couple in the eyes of the law

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    Senior Member meilingg is on a distinguished road
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    Quote Originally Posted by carlise View Post
    ideal is after both.. but many couples will want dragon baby haha. my parents are very traditional, so they say only after customary wedding then can get pregnant! T.T although actually after ROM, you and your hubby are already a married couple in the eyes of the law
    My family are very traditional too thus they also think it's better after customary.

    But if after customary, I don't think my HTB and I will have a dragon baby already...

    So if get pregnant after ROM but before customary, is it still shotgun?

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    Haha if get pregnant after ROM is not really shotgun le..just that your wedding guests might think its shotgun haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by tracylim View Post
    Haha if get pregnant after ROM is not really shotgun le..just that your wedding guests might think its shotgun haha
    Yup yup! Guests will assume is shotgun. So best is don't let them have the chance to guess.

    If by wedding dinner, I'm 1 or 2 months pregnancy, think they won't realized as long it is small..,

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    Quote Originally Posted by meilingg View Post
    Yup yup! Guests will assume is shotgun. So best is don't let them have the chance to guess.

    If by wedding dinner, I'm 1 or 2 months pregnancy, think they won't realized as long it is small..,
    yeah.. cannot see. but after the wedding people can count backwards one mah... like my friend... noone knew during the wedding dinner, but less than 5 mths after the wedding, got a child (and it's not prematured). guess also can guess right? =P

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    Quote Originally Posted by rojak View Post
    yeah.. cannot see. but after the wedding people can count backwards one mah... like my friend... noone knew during the wedding dinner, but less than 5 mths after the wedding, got a child (and it's not prematured). guess also can guess right? =P
    that one my htb and me did thought of it.. but he say if only 1 or 2 months nevermind lah... not shotgun mah... already ROM but got pregnant just before AD. haha!

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    Quote Originally Posted by meilingg View Post
    that one my htb and me did thought of it.. but he say if only 1 or 2 months nevermind lah... not shotgun mah... already ROM but got pregnant just before AD. haha!
    i also have friend who actually ROM 1yr ago and got pregnant and decided to push forward their customary. During her customary, she is already 3+ months pregnant but cannot really see cos she is fat (very bad of me saying that). some people might say shotgun but some won't as long as they know u ROM then get pregnant so want to have customary fast.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessCrystal View Post
    i also have friend who actually ROM 1yr ago and got pregnant and decided to push forward their customary. During her customary, she is already 3+ months pregnant but cannot really see cos she is fat (very bad of me saying that). some people might say shotgun but some won't as long as they know u ROM then get pregnant so want to have customary fast.
    wah... means they changed their banquet earlier?

    cos what if some couples already booked their banquets and suddenly got this issue?

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    Quote Originally Posted by meilingg View Post
    wah... means they changed their banquet earlier?

    cos what if some couples already booked their banquets and suddenly got this issue?
    i don't think they book their banquet before she gets pregnant. so it will be easier for her to find a place to just hold her banquet. but for those who already booked their banquets, probably can check with the hotel if they can change the date. the most just tell them the truth lor. but if you already ROMed and this happen then the staff won't gossip la. as long as they still have the ballroom available for you for the new date you want i guess should be fine.

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    my family is traditional so my parents will not like the idea of pregnant before customary. some kapo relatives and friends sure cannot keep their mouth shut.

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