Red Table arrangement woes..

[Enigma1612]

I have 3 elder bro.. both bro 1 n bro 2 hasnt been on talking terms. Coz i had a close relationship with my bro ex wife n nephew. Now that I m getting married, dad finds tat i ought to invite my bro his current wife kids. n her in laws. but i find it difficult to slot for the red table arrangement coz i know i didnt acknowledge that woman as my sis in law at all.

1) Should I slot just my brothers. dad n elders
2) separate brother. wife and children separate.
3) not inviting bro1 and current wife would make Dad quite disappointed.
4) arrange all the sis in laws to sit with their parents. with kids. coz as long as my ex sis in law is not same table with bro 1 . its fine...

[Tenshi]

presume that all your brothers are married with kids and also you are inviting all your sister in laws parents.

Then in this case I would recommend that you only pick one of your brother and family (excluding your sister in law parents) normally your elderest brother should be the first choice to sit at the red table with your parents and elders which will already take up the whole table. If not, see which sister in law of yours is ok to leave their parents to seat by themselves. Dun get too much emotion on who to sit on the red table as you will not be sitting there la.

separating your brother, wife and children are not recommended.

Hope this help.

[Enigma1612]

the eldest bro has 4 kids. 2 of which is frm the ex wife's side. the whole family actually dislike his wife now. anyway the table cant fit all. will try to exclude this woman from red table. the rest is fine.