stay with in-laws or shuttle between both places aft marriage

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Mike1982

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• Mar 24, 2013

• #1

as some of us may need to wait for a while or so before the flat is ready following marriage,

will it be ok if wife-to-be were to stay alternate days between in-laws place and her parents' place (be it for work reasons or etc)?

 

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blessedkiss

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• Mar 25, 2013

• #2

yah that's fine after all, it's a one big happy family!

 

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blur blur gal

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• Mar 25, 2013

• #3

yeah thats what i am currently doing..as my mum hse is much nearer to my workplace. so i only stay in my in laws place on weekends and public holiday

 

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serenaw

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• Apr 1, 2013

• #4

yeh it's a nice idea. it's practical and at the same time you can get to know your in-laws better

 

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Enigma1612

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• Apr 22, 2013

• #5

yup i m thinking stay wkday at htb house. weekend go back relax at my own house.. haha

 

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heaven

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• Apr 23, 2013

• #6

in that way you can have a deeper relationship with your in-laws.. something that is definitely good

 

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Lilly

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• Apr 24, 2013

• #7

it shouldn't be a problem. Is your htb happy with this arrangement?

 

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Enigma1612

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• Apr 24, 2013

• #8

have to communciate with the htb.. liao n really depnds if ur in laws n parents r open minde.d

 

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ellozola

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• May 5, 2013

• #9

just have to communicate... it is a small issue~~

 

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Prada

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• May 9, 2013

• #10

Just to share I have read an article on whether to stay with your in laws, regardless of guy side or gal side..

As newly weds gotta adapt the lifetstyle of each other when staying together, there will be a bit of conflicts here and there. You dun wanna add on more conflicts with PIL, adapting with more pple.

Not that staying with PIL is bad, but it is better to adapt 2 person lifestyle first.

 

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valentiniees

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• Feb 7, 2014

• #11

yeah, if you are comfortable, you can stay with them for a while.