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07-08-2011 09:38 PM #1
Hi everyone.. Have anyone of u all did the tea ceremony for both family in same hotel but different room in 2 hours ? Etc, gate crashing at my room , tea ceremony wt my family, follow by go to another room for his family.. Pls advise
08-08-2011 10:27 AM #2
my friend did hers in two different hotels. if you doing it in the same hotel... if i dun remember wrongly after gate crashing you have to take the car go one round come back then go to your in laws room do the tea ceremony then change your clothes then take the car go one round come back then go to your family room for tea ceremony.
as i remember if its on the same place still have to spend some time to travel ... errr means get into the car go one round la.
10-08-2011 10:44 AM #3
wow Tenshi, that sounds really hectic and tiring. Can't do in the same house? Is it some tradition thing?
11-08-2011 10:40 AM #4
can do in the same hotel lah just that you cant just walk over to the next room just like tat la... got to travel a bit la then go to the next room la.
yap its a traditional thingy but dun know why must do that.
11-08-2011 11:21 AM #5
could be to symbolise that you go to different places, one from the bride side and one from the groom side. Before marriage, both are not under the same roof
15-08-2011 09:26 AM #6
im going to do my tea ceremony on different days.
my side will be before the solemnization, and the groom's side will be 2 days later as his mom calculated that to be auspicious.
seems very out of the norm and i do not know how to arrange!
21-02-2014 02:12 PM #7
you can do it in the same house but in different rooms. having them in different venues is quite confusing and time-consuming.
21-02-2014 04:57 PM #8
we're planning on doing it on the same place only.