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    Hi girls, just wanted to find out how involved is your HTB during your wedding preparation? some guys just leave the girls to do everything by saying "i leave it all to u" but the wedding preparation not so easy for just 1 person to manage. especially if the person has to also work...
    what are ur experiences..?

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    Senior Member meilingg is on a distinguished road
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    My HTB are involved to most of the preparation. I still think he is doing more than me! haha. Some tasks we will discuss and do it together...

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    Im not that lucky ): My HTB is really busy with work. So i got to handle most of the stuff. Luckily the wedding is next year! But then, there always seem to have never ending tasks to do!

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    Member kimchoo is on a distinguished road
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    meilingg: that's very good of your HTB! the involvement he is showing must also reassure you a lot...

    jeweled: aiyoo...being busy with work is quite a common thing nowadays lor...but u muz also be a very independent woman who can manage most of the wedding preparations by yourself! jia you!!

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    My hubby played a huge role in the wedding planning/ preparation because sometimes I just got so overwhelmed with work and the many things to do for the wedding that I just couldn't handle anymore things. He stepped up and stepped in to support me in very many practical ways so I could just breathe for abit. Really appreciate him!

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    Here and there I guess. Everyone is busy with work and as long as he is involved one way or another, that's important.

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    Senior Member Ning87 is on a distinguished road
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    I think i more involved. he only responsible for cheering me on and driving me all over the place and support me with my crazy ideas!! LOL.. think coz im a control freak.. i feel better when i can control it.. so he takes a backseat.

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    haha i guess it depends on the couple dynamics. my ROM was more of my effort, but he did input advices and all that, and now in prep for the wedding next year, he's really stepping up and doing alot more (even more than me!) i think cos i feeling a little lazy after all the prep for the ROM hahahaha!

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    sometimes he's there but sometimes he's not. mentally i mean... =/

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    he would like to join in most decision making, but usually it slows down the whole things. sometimes, I would prefer he let me do all the planning.

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    Member candyrain is on a distinguished road
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    ya la sometimes think so much end up give more headache! more pek cek!

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    Junior Member emi30 is on a distinguished road
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    I'm so thankfully during the period when we prepared, my husband was the one seeing most of it..

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    you're better half should be involved in all aspects of the wedding preparation. just like mine, it was a worry-free process because i had a very organized, systematic, and friendly wedding planner...and i also had my hubby by my side.

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    I am the one doing the planning but will inform him about it.

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    we plan it together!

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