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    Junior Member sharontay is on a distinguished road
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    When to start adressing my future MIL and FIL

    Hi all,

    Im wondering if i shld start addressing my FIL and MIL after my ROM or only after my customary?

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    Senior Member melo is on a distinguished road
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    after ROM can already. you are legally married under the eyes of the law. as long as they dont mind, it should not be a problem.

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    Senior Member meilingg is on a distinguished road
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    Depends on individuals.
    For me, we already ROM this year June but we will only address them officially after our customary which is next year March.

    Cos to me, i find it that i should only address them officially during the tea ceremony, if not it defeat the purpose of the tea ceremony... haha... maybe my mind too tradition...

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    hehe.. up to you la.. for me.. i have not started addressing them after my ROM.. shall wait till customary...

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    i think it is up to you.

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    I started doing that when we got engaged.

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    IMO, once engaged. ;)

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    i started addressing them right after our engagement. and they agreed too. hihi.

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    Member chocopiee is infamous around these parts
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    Actually, when news of our engagement first broke out, they already told me to call them Mom and Dad even if we were not married yet.

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    Member pienutbutter is infamous around these parts
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    i guess you can address them after getting engaged to your bf.

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    up to you. we agreed that i'll be calling them in-laws after our engagement was announced.

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