who pays what?

[eyelash]

Hi all,

I still feel there might be some expenses that could not be split.
Like the groom's side got to pay for gold, bride's price and guo da Li gifts.
And the bride's parents got to pay for daughter's dowry and gold.

And in cases where only one side has got many friends and relatives coming to the morning ceromony and wants to cater lunch buffet, then I guess it's not fair to split this bill also.

And usually the bride will want to pay for their own shoes, accessories, manicures and some bridesmaids expenses.

[lydiawang]

divided our cost to 60-40.

[vienna]

agreed to 70-30 payment for everything

[dancingqueen]

Will get married next year and agreed to divide the expense

[jhingness04]

yeah we split all the expenses too.. but for us it's 50% to 50%

[secretparadise]

did the same thing. combine everything then divided into how much we want each other to pay

[princesschloe]

i paid for my gown but combine the remaining expenses and divided it to 80:20 ratio

[LhileePots]

the same with everyone. we just combined it then divided it

[summerlovin]

the same as what everyone else did. combined everything then divided it

[MissErinD]

It's best to combine everything and just divide it

[shetravels]

just split all the expenses in half

[heroine_1982]

we had a joint savings acct for our wedding took us years!

[babyyshark]

So this is the process... Wow good to know