Will you have gate crashing for your wedding?

[dinobaby]

I was thinking of not having gate crashing on my AD because i prefer it to be a quiet occasion.. at the same time, i'm worried in case the pranks get out of control and it turns ugly. i wouldn't want htb to be grumpy on our wedding day! He is quite good tempered, but you know how sometimes guys can take things a little too far.. should I have gatecrashing or not? Will it be boring if I don't have gatecrashing? (It will be quite nice for memories, photos and the videos i suppose)

[ladyinwhite]

Im quite a low key person too, prefer not to crash gate. but it's fun for the guys and adds an exciting atmosphere. maybe what you can do is to tell the guys not to be to rough on your htb like doing physical things on him. rather, you can have things like eating 5 sour sweets at one go, those will cause less trouble.

[Coconut]

gatecrashing can be fun for the guys especially, but must keep it in control otherwise can go out of hand, esp if your hubby to be has rowdy friends haha. i did see one wedding whereby the gatecrash got too out of hand and the groom was quite grumpy after that. not exactly the kind of tone you want to set on your wedding day

[poshberries]

Yes of course. It is a once in a million rare chance to "tekan" your hubby-to-be and a good way to take revenge first in case in the near future he bullies you. Lolz! This is actually important to have because to be honest, this is the only chance to let him know in order to make you his wife, he needs to go through this simple hardships or obstacles to marry you. Not easy to have you as his wife, so must go through alot of obstacles then can have you as his wife, so he must dear and treasure you more. The harder to get, the more precious you are to him. If not, next time he will think back and snigger at you: "silly girl, who ask you never tekan me during the wedding day!" haha..anyway, this is a fun day, so enjoy and let everyone have fun in it too!

[starryz]

hahahas you made me think differently posh =p I initially thought of letting it go easy for my htb but maybe not anymore heex

[astutekitty]

I think that having gate crashing is fun ...

I agreed with Poshberries of the purpose of the gate crashing ... but not to be overboard as this is a happy big day for the couple ...

It is great to have fun memory ...

Do remember before having fun with the gate crashing, brides please take back your house key if you have duplicate 1 for your HTB ...

[thetoots]

its all depends on u... probably you will want to speak to him first? hear his opinion. To me gate crashing is the only time to have fun and see how much he willing to do for you to the extend once a lifetime exp... when u miss it dun regret then is ok loh.... of cox u have to tell ur sisters to be tactful and not too overboard. anyway ur parents will be there so usually when things get overboard they will come into it and stop... nothing much to worry about

[siewz15]

hi, it would be fun to have one.. but when i had mine, i had my best friend who helped to control the entire session, so that it will not go overboard.. and all my gfs understand that it's just for fun, not to embarass anyone..

[june1985]

haha... my HTB did mention to me that if my sisters was to do overboard. He will turn and walk away.... Haha.... So i must let my sisters know where is the limit and not to do overboard or else our big day will be an unhappy one.... I also do not wish to get scolding from HTB on that day... haha

[PrincessCrystal]

anyone got any fun and exciting gatecrash ideas to share with? desperately in need of ideas. haha...

[astutekitty]

Hi Couples

Do share yours ... I am also running out of ideas ... =P

Something not too overboard or embarrass ... Just for fun and "positive" memorable.

TIA ^^

[PrincessCrystal]

i requested for live feed from my photographer during gatecrashing so i get to see the fun my jiemeis have! i think i will have a great laugh in the room. please share some of your fun ideas!

[honeydew]

hey princesscrystal and astutekitty, you can consider some ideas which i got from my jie mei's weddings.

- Ask groom and brothers questions about the bride. eg what was her favourite childhood cartoon. If the groom cannot answer, he and brothers have to eat wasabi, super sour sweet or bittergourd.
(if your hubby got weak stomach, skip this gatecrash idea, later if he get stomachache then jialat! must keep watch on brothers... becos we realized that they actually had a black plastic bag outside and threw away the bittergourd and all the sour food they were supposed to eat HAHA.)

- If your htb and brothers are the fun loving kind, can make them wear underwear outside and draw '[Bride's name] I love you!' or any other funny things. It looks VERY CUTE on photos and video, especially when your relatives and friends see it during your banquet sure will have a big laugh.

princesscrystal, that's a great idea! i think i will also have that on my wedding day, then can see what is happening outside haha!

[PrincessCrystal]

hey princesscrystal and astutekitty, you can consider some ideas which i got from my jie mei's weddings.

- Ask groom and brothers questions about the bride. eg what was her favourite childhood cartoon. If the groom cannot answer, he and brothers have to eat wasabi, super sour sweet or bittergourd.
(if your hubby got weak stomach, skip this gatecrash idea, later if he get stomachache then jialat! must keep watch on brothers... becos we realized that they actually had a black plastic bag outside and threw away the bittergourd and all the sour food they were supposed to eat HAHA.)

- If your htb and brothers are the fun loving kind, can make them wear underwear outside and draw '[Bride's name] I love you!' or any other funny things. It looks VERY CUTE on photos and video, especially when your relatives and friends see it during your banquet sure will have a big laugh.

princesscrystal, that's a great idea! i think i will also have that on my wedding day, then can see what is happening outside haha!

actually i have some ideas for gatecrashing but lazy to get it done. haha... i have thought of the below ideas for my jiemeis:
1. DIY winnie the pooh & friends clothings and mask for the groom and brothers to wear
2. DIY disney princesses dress and ask them to wear
3. find the individual 7 dwarfs t-shirts and let them wear and groom wear the DIY snow white dress
4. the normal sour, sweet, bitter, spicy food

with the live feed as least u get to see what is happening outside if not you can only view it once your wedding is over which is not fun anymore.

[honeydew]

actually i have some ideas for gatecrashing but lazy to get it done. haha... i have thought of the below ideas for my jiemeis:
1. DIY winnie the pooh & friends clothings and mask for the groom and brothers to wear
2. DIY disney princesses dress and ask them to wear
3. find the individual 7 dwarfs t-shirts and let them wear and groom wear the DIY snow white dress
4. the normal sour, sweet, bitter, spicy food

with the live feed as least u get to see what is happening outside if not you can only view it once your wedding is over which is not fun anymore.

that's so cute! pooh and friends those masks and ear hair bands i think can find in costume shops, should be quite easy to find. If DIY i think that will take quite alot of time, unless you and yr friends like to DIY stuff haha.

i think making them wear cute stuffs is so fun, normally see those guys and htb so macho, on your wedding day yr jie meis and you can see the total other side haha!