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    Member fy5fo is on a distinguished road
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    Woman contributing more $

    How do you feel about earning more income than your husband to be? And how do you feel and think about contributing more to wedding and household expenses? Is it okay for a woman to contribute more?

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    Junior Member icesky is on a distinguished road
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    your husband to be is a very lucky guy.. haha. as long as it doesnt hurt his ego, it should be fine. in fact he should be proud to have such a capable wife! some guys are quite sensitive about this; like they have an ego thing that makes them feel inferior if their wife to be earns more than them. at least it spurs him on to work harder so he can reach your same salary or more!

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    Junior Member yuki is on a distinguished road
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    both parties will get getting married, after that what belongs to you also belongs to him. so why need to compare?

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    Senior Member meilingg is on a distinguished road
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    yup. as a married couple, i think we won't purposely make a line between your money or his money.

    He might be earning abit lesser than you now but that doesn't mean in future too.
    I'm sure he wil be more motivated to build up his career and run in par as you... =)

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    Member fy5fo is on a distinguished road
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    Hmm, thanks ladies for all your sharings! It's reassuring.

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    Member jingjing is on a distinguished road
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    believe in your husband, dont make him feel sad about it.. sometimes guys really have pride issues haha

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    i know someone in that situation- but they both agree and share what he/she have so no problem in that case

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    Senior Member churvalo is on a distinguished road
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    i agree with you yuki- for richeror fort poorer equally lah
    Quote Originally Posted by yuki View Post
    both parties will get getting married, after that what belongs to you also belongs to him. so why need to compare?

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    Senior Member snowy is on a distinguished road
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    nowadays singapore women are very pragmatic, if no money, please dont marry because it's going to be many years of hardship. many of my friends also say that they will rather marry someone who can provide for them instead of someone they love but cannot provide. in singapore this is reality~

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