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    a womanizer husband

    I caught my husband having other women several times. He always asks forgiveness every time I slap him with an evidence. I forgive all the time but never forget. I used to cry a lot of times but lately, I don't even know how to feel anymore. I sometimes wanted to cry but no tears are coming out. I can't even decide if I have to leave him or just accept for what he is. I can't think any more of what's right for me. Am I crazy or what?!

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    I'm so sorry to hear about your husband having an affair with other women. Knowing that you've caught him several times will really hurt you that much. This time you need to talk to him finally before it affects you deeply. Of course, you are not crazy, you only loved too much but need to heal after those hurtful situations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by runawaygirl View Post
    I'm so sorry to hear about your husband having an affair with other women. Knowing that you've caught him several times will really hurt you that much. This time you need to talk to him finally before it affects you deeply. Of course, you are not crazy, you only loved too much but need to heal after those hurtful situations.

    Hi. Thanks for your kind words. I talked to a Church pastor who is close to me and he suggested that we consider marriage counseling. But before that, I decided to go for a personal counseling because I want to help myself first. I have so much hatred, pain, and all different crazy feelings and thoughts which I don't even know if those are normal. When I say crazy feeling and thoughts...I'm thinking about disappearing forever. So I'm hoping to feel better first before I face another issue.

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    Hi @runawaygirl . I just remembered earlier coz I wanted to share with you about my improvements. I'm finally seeing a therapist now and each session is a milestone. I'm feeling better each day and hopefully, I will be able to plan a counseling for me and my husband. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts. We don't know each other. You could have just ignored this post but you spare your little time for me and it really helped a lot. Thank you again.

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    You need relationship counselling if you want to work out your marriage..

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    I'm so sorry to hear that. Hope you remain strong!

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    I hope you deal with it by having a honest, real conversation between you two. It's important to keep communication lines healthy in any relationship. Be honest about how you feel and make your husband know. It is unfair for you!

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    I hope you talk out things with him now before it gets any worse.

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    If things continue downhill, why don't you seek a relationship counsellor?

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    Im so sorry for this to happen to you, this is the worst case scenario any married woman want to be in, hope you can find a way to solve things even if its leaving him. Find out why he does these kinda things and root it out.

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