Would it be better to hold ROM and actual day together or on different day?

[Ning87]

hah Ning tat sounds a good and affordable way to save cost ^^ I shall learn from you and maybe do the same thing haha...maybe not a chalet but something similar. which chalet ya looking at lea..? Sg most chalets small small de only got 1 big one think its called aloha loyang.

we probably be getting the SAF one? i forgot the name.. but i saw it looks quite big.

anyway our friends not many somemore is the rowdy type. if invite them to wedding they sure wan to disturb and get my SO to drink alot de..

[poshberries]

Is it the The Chevrons?

[Ning87]

no.. its the changi one.. i saw it looks quite big..

[rojak]

I'm choosing to do it all on the same day, to save going thru the hassle twice. saves money by doing it all together too, and your guests don't have to attend your wedding twice, which i always feel is rather odd. you also wouldn't need to decide on which day you want to have as yiur official wedding anniversary, or the date to carve on your wedding bands, coz there will only be one date!

[mellowhearts]

Hi everyone! Sounds like everyone is busily preparing for their weddings and hope you are all enjoying the process as much as you can.
Just joined in to share a little about my experience - About the arrangement of the ROM and AD on the same day or not, we were actually contemplating breaking it up into 2 days coz we felt it would be really tiring to be up at 5+ in the morning and then to have the day drag into way past 12 midnight.
But as some of you have said - It's double the cost to break this up into 2 days...So we decided to just hold it both on the same day. Haha
Was tiring but definitely well worth it.

[pinnpinn]

Hi everyone! Sounds like everyone is busily preparing for their weddings and hope you are all enjoying the process as much as you can.
Just joined in to share a little about my experience - About the arrangement of the ROM and AD on the same day or not, we were actually contemplating breaking it up into 2 days coz we felt it would be really tiring to be up at 5+ in the morning and then to have the day drag into way past 12 midnight.
But as some of you have said - It's double the cost to break this up into 2 days...So we decided to just hold it both on the same day. Haha
Was tiring but definitely well worth it.

Thats true, having it on different day will cost alot more. But consider having a dream ROM will be cheaper than having a dream wedding! Thats what me and my HTB thinks.

[mellowhearts]

Hahah you are right! Having a dream ROM will likely be cheaper than the dream wedding. important for you and your HTB to be on the same page on this very important step of your lives together.

[Jacelyn22]

It all depends on individual. Personally, I would want it to be a separate affair since i'm waiting for my house.

[pinnpinn]

It all depends on individual. Personally, I would want it to be a separate affair since i'm waiting for my house.

Me too! Im waiting for my house as well (potentially. Keeping finger crossed!)

[jeweled]

Mine will be on the same day! Cut cost!

[kenjunior]

Me too... Guess save time, $$$... why not...

[retrodots]

cannot imagine getting up at 5am just to do the hair and make up then go through one whole day till night time at 12+ or even later before i can crawl into bed...how many days wud i need after that to recover from the exhaustion? haha

[pinnpinn]

I guess thats why a lot of couples head for their honeymoon straight or a few days after their wedding? To recover from all the hectic-ness they go through during their big day. But I guess it's all worth well and enjoyable!

[jc7884]

holding ROM in another date from AD has its pros and cons.

Pros : you can plan something more special and meaningful coz you have more time and less haste.
Cons: Groom have to spend more $$$ (rental of gown, suits, venue, food, PG/VG etc...) this adds to a few $K..

[candyrain]

ya lor...i think separating into 2 days means more money but more time to plan things. just hv to decide based on what is important to u rite?