Would it be better to hold ROM and actual day together or on different day?

[astutejr]

yea i guess is better to hold it on same day

[brandonquek]

Due to HDB regulation, have to ROM within 2 years of buying ec, so no time to plan for actual wedding. Do ROM first lor.

[starryz]

if AD is far from ROM, you know something might happen uhh which can set AD to many yrs later or no more lol

[spamholder]

thanks for the info, everyone

[Mike1982]

mines having both on same day...ROM in early evening follow by banquet function

[waltztitus]

I think ideally it should be on the same day but honestly it doesn't matter.

[Mike1982]

I think ideally it should be on the same day but honestly it doesn't matter.

so long as can try to manage the event flow & time, should be able to..and importantly, still have the joy and happiness!

[coffeetea]

After my church solemnization is my wedding dinner. We opted to do it on the same day because it's easier to plan and easier for our guests to attend.

[iamgracey]

I'm actually very troubled over this issue now. House is coming soon therefore I was thinking of doing two separate events. ROM for immediate family and few close friends and a celebration the following year for everyone. Pros are, more money for photos, more time to save up and concentrate on the house first. Only thing is, there will be two dates to remember, and it doesn't really make sense because once I signed the cert, won't we already be married? So stress over this and scared I regret on whichever decision I make.

[qinqing]

I think it's better to do it on the same day so that you'll get to save time and the money that you need to come up will be fixed for the 2 events. also i think setting it on separate events might inconvenient the guests and what i'm afraid of putting it on different dates is that the guests might forget the second date.

[iamgracey]

Actually my main concern is that we have to hand in the cert soon to HDB and I don't have much time to do an AD (photography and etc). Was thinking of doing a small ROM with closest people. Any ladies here going through this dilemma?

[hollyrose]

i think doing a ROM with some of your close friends and relatives is also good especially if you're lacking time to do the AD.

[cinnamoroll]

I will have ROM and actual day on the same day. But I will be doing away gatecrashing so there is plenty of time.

[fruitietootie]

in my opinion, it would be better to hold it in the same so as to save time and for you and your husband to enjoy your honeymoon and stay together, a bit earlier.

[purplewings]

we're planning on doing it all in just one day otherwise the planning becomes longer and more stressful