Not really. Cos it's kinda hard to do exactly the same stuff. It's fun, definitely. But u will really need a lot of rehearsals. If not, it will be kinda messy. And though some xiaodi and/or xiaomeis dont mind doing, you can see from their expressions that they are actually kinda paiseh to do such stuff infront of everybody. Haha
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Not really. Cos it's kinda hard to do exactly the same stuff. It's fun, definitely. But u will really need a lot of rehearsals. If not, it will be kinda messy. And though some xiaodi and/or xiaomeis dont mind doing, you can see from their expressions that they are actually kinda paiseh to do such stuff infront of everybody. Haha
Cheesecake, your HTB have his reason in choosing his batch of XiaoDi(s), so in some way you must learn to respect them as they are/might be the closest friends of ur HTB. Not sure if your HTB will feel anything if u comment to him about how u feel towards his friends. I think secretly he might thinks that you are too demanding even though he appears to be alright? I guess it's about compromising stuff bah? I dont think ur HTB will comment about the Jie-meis you have?! If he's fine with the Jie Meis you want, you sld be fine with the Xiao Dis he want. Though they might not corporate.
Just my 2cents worth of view
And hopefully ur troubles are solved now!cheesecake
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Cheesecake, your HTB have his reason in choosing his batch of XiaoDi(s), so in some way you must learn to respect them as they are/might be the closest friends of ur HTB. Not sure if your HTB will feel anything if u comment to him about how u feel towards his friends. I think secretly he might thinks that you are too demanding even though he appears to be alright? I guess it's about compromising stuff bah? I dont think ur HTB will comment about the Jie-meis you have?! If he's fine with the Jie Meis you want, you sld be fine with the Xiao Dis he want. Though they might not corporate.
Just my 2cents worth of view
Hmm... In some way, you are true lah. My HTB didnt say that I'm demanding. He says that whatever i commented is somehow true (that his xiongdi's has attitude problem and somehow arrogant). But he says that he dont have much close friends. And if he wanna change, he oso sorta difficult, becos the invitation (ask them to be the xiongdi) already out. If now he wanna change xiongdi also very difficult to say.
I know la. I compromise lo. My HTB also says the same.
Try to bear with it ba. I believe he can understand how you feel from the way he commented. Is he able to talk to his xiong di's to try to help you out? Maybe you can try asking him to ask his xiongdis to do the things you need help you with instead of you asking them directly? I think if your HTB ask them instead they might *obediently* comply since they are his close friends afterall.
cheesecake
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The thing is... my HTB is a VERY obedient boy. hahahahahahahhaas~!!! Problem lehhhh~!!!
meiphenglove
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uh you mean ur HTB will do what his xiongdi's ask him to do arh?
cheesecake: that's why you are marrying him mah! his personality makes him the good husband for you
about the glee thing, yeah i guess unless your entire troop of jie meis and xiong dis are already dancers, it will be hard to do the exact same move as the show itself. but still muz applaud their efforts in doing the performance for the wedding!
about the glee thing, yeah i guess unless your entire troop of jie meis and xiong dis are already dancers, it will be hard to do the exact same move as the show itself. but still muz applaud their efforts in doing the performance for the wedding!
pastelpink
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sian la if the jiemeis and xiongdis give problems lor...wedding already so stress wat for need to deal with more problems
cheesecake
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u will feel lagi sian when people says "your wedding is your problem. dont make us dress like a clown".
Urgh!
Urgh!
There are those where you dress simple but still nice? like a similar colour shirt with jeans/pants. By shirt I meant like button-up shirts not tees. No offence to all BTBs, but I think those brothers/sisters that merely wear red/pink/whatever colour tees with jeans/pants/skirts looked really weird! Actually those tee-shirt like material (cotton?) and everyone wears the exact same shade. I think its equivalent to clown as well luh. in my opinion.
Cheesecake, i think sometimes the brothers might not meant what they say luh. maybe they just cant correctly express themselves. I guess you need more communication with them! Cos the tone in which you/they speak to you might cause unnecessary misunderstanding that you might not want.
Cheesecake, i think sometimes the brothers might not meant what they say luh. maybe they just cant correctly express themselves. I guess you need more communication with them! Cos the tone in which you/they speak to you might cause unnecessary misunderstanding that you might not want.
poor cheesecake ... if they really say that .... I will get angry too.. aiya if they like that hor then simple lah spend more money on yourself better then ask them to wear t shirt and jeans lor. it will also look nice la.
i have ever see one that the brothers and sisters wearing white polo t and blue jeans the out come also nice.
kathpierce
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i noticed that some jiemeis are picky when it comes to the bridesmaid dresses...
darlingofthecrowd
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don't they just normally help the bride throughout the wedding?
sunrisesunset
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Actually main thing for xiongdi and jiemei is to know that the wedding is for the couple.
littlemissbrainy
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tsk tsk, that kind of jiemeis are really hard to deal with.
enjilicious
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yeah some people insist on what they want