pillowcasey
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Actually, the hints are quite directed towards us after our engagement (even prior to it, during our wedding preparations).
They want grand-children as soon as possible because they claim that their life expectancies throughout their generations aren't long. We've both talked about it and won't be having one so soon until 4-5 years after marriage.
It's really amusing how they'd say it so casually and focus on the child-bearing process than embracing the love that will be forged into one. Can't help but feel extremely pressured into guilt trips because of our differing mindsets - hope this won't be an obstacle in our future new family ties. :mellow:
Any of the BTBs having such situations too?
They want grand-children as soon as possible because they claim that their life expectancies throughout their generations aren't long. We've both talked about it and won't be having one so soon until 4-5 years after marriage.
It's really amusing how they'd say it so casually and focus on the child-bearing process than embracing the love that will be forged into one. Can't help but feel extremely pressured into guilt trips because of our differing mindsets - hope this won't be an obstacle in our future new family ties. :mellow:
Any of the BTBs having such situations too?
