Easily Jealous girlfriend - how to handle?

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cowboy

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hi ladies, hope i can get some opinions here. my girlfriend gets jealous very easily, and recently it became worse. (maybe the engagement process stressing her out?)

Each time i talk to a female friend she will give snide remarks, so i can tell she is jealous. any way to make her less insecure? I have already done everything i can, like talking less to my female friends. :unsure:
 
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rainne

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when you say talk do you go out with your female friend alone and talk to her? if u go out alone with another girl then i guess its normal for your wife-to-be to feel insecure. Tell us more about it and will see how i can help.
 
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perfecticious

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Is it pure female friends or your ex, etc? Maybe you can feed us with more info so we can help?
Anyway, what you can do now is just to reassure her. :)
 
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rojak

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one way is to keep your gf involved in your friendsships with other girls, be it going out, or meeting up, or just having conversations. when she's also included in the friendship, then she'll be more aware of how platonic your relationship with other girls is, and her presence can also make a statement to your female friends that she's your gf... these should contribute to making her feel more secure..
 
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Jiemin

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I agreed with rainne. Especially going out late night alone. Its not on the guy's part, it is just that your wife to be do not trust the girl. I felt it is very easy for a girl to fall in love as compare to guy. As long as a guy show concern and the girl felt that the guy is a nice person and bother to understand her(through HTHT), the girl can be easily mistaken that the guy is interested in her.
 
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melo

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Jealousy is females' #1 problem la, any other girl will also have jealousy issues but maybe lesser
 
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churvalo

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they said you know if some one is in love because he/she get jealous easily but if that too much already then another problem
 
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WeddingCupit

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Security is very important for a girl. She may have felt unsecured when you are around with them. Maybe you should introduce your friends to her, and when introducing to your friends say that she is your gf. Then your gf will feels secured.
 
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adesmond2

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in fact, jealous is always better than no jealous felt at all right? :)
So the best thing is, treat your gf as your best friend and wife and mom, tell them everything and respect their opinion and decision for you.

They are always thinking for you, of cuz, not unreasonable request like, cannot go out to meet your male friends and etc.
 
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pastel

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hmmmm... i say you should keep telling her that you love her, and do sweet stuffs for her every now and then.. but if she still gets jealous, perhaps that's not healthy anymore :)
 
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sonnyye

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Jealousy is because of love but at the same time unresonable jealousy is just lack of self-confident, immaturity or trust. So maybe the guys need to know whether the jealousy is caused by their own "wrong" doing or the lady is just over-reacting.
 
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jfong83

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Just a two cent worth opinion.

Well bro, I do not know what is the exact situation but I believe that a loving relationship are build up from many sustains. To zoom into your problem, I personally believe that trust between a couple is a very important factor, in the event if a couple do not consist a "trust" in a relationship then how well would you see the journey ahead?

Tell her that "Have faith, always remember that what is yours is yours, what is not eventually is won't be". Being truth of oneself and accept each other, rather than faking your act throughout to keep a relationship. Marriage is life journey, think & look further.
 
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candie

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i admit i'm an easily jealous girlfriend. this problem roots from my insecurities. i explained this to my boyfriend so now he always assures me when i have jealous fits. he's very patient.
 
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