Fiance has another woman, what to do with deposit?

[rosepetals]

Hi brides, my finance had someone else when we were preparing for our wedding. We have already paid most of the deposit for things like BS, banquet etc. Is there any way to get back the deposit or is it sunk cost?

 

[cryoaz]

Unless you wan to try to negotiate with the BS and banquet, if not most likely is sunk cost....

 

[cryoaz]

Unless you wan to try to negotiate with the BS and banquet, if not most likely is sunk cost....

Or maybe see if your package is transferable...

 

[melo]

the other small services they wont give back. but banquet you can transfer the name.

 

[meilingg]

yup. i think try to negotiate and transfer it to another couple to at least recover part of the cost...

 

[AlphineJas]

Try to request for a partial refund if can or ask if it is transferable.
Sorry to hear that

 

[julieswong]

hopefully can transfer..

 

[churvalo]

oh my God- let everything transfer lah-then devide

 

[tiffanyblue]

Just try to negotiate with the management first..

 

[oreofudge]

try negotiating with your bs. some bs give back customer's deposits.

 

[missellise]

yeah. you should negotiate with the bridal shop or the banquet. maybe they will give you even partial refund.

 

[EthanMason]

Close this matter Rosepetals! You did everything for your love and there is no hope for getting back the deposit. Just chill...

 

[chocopiee]

you need to talk to the management of the establishments. some of them allow some partial refund on your deposit.