actually you can find a lot of ways to keep the love alive, especially in married life.
first off, appreciation is very important. appreciation is the fuel in any kind of relationship. when you see something good, unique, and special to your spouse, say it verbally. keep praising, and don't underscore your partner's faults.
next, make it a habit to freely express or tell your spouse about your needs, whatever they may be. in this way, you are strengthening the open communication between you. and remember, give and take is important.
next, motivate your partner. when you keep motivating, your partner feels that he or she is never alone.
those are just a few ways. but i hope it helps!
