I have attended buffet style wedding banquet. One is lunch .... dun really enjoy it cause they did not prepare enough seats for everyone to sit down which I believe that the couple would like us to mingle around with the rest.
and 2 dinners, one does not even serves enough food, the other, the food is ok but then dun seems like attending wedding dinner ....
Overall no matter what my expereince is .... all my friends of the above they enjoy themselves during their wedding day
Anyway its more on what you guys like more then wat your guest like. You cant please everyone. The main thing is two of you are happy on that day