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melo

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I heard that in a relationship, there will always be one partner who love the person more than the other. is that true?
 
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jeremychew

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actually does not really matter whether if there is another party that loves each other more...
yes its true but its hard to gauge who love the other person more...
normally its based on personally feelings...

my advise:
dun bother thinking that u might love ur partner more and that he/she dun love u as much...
ultimately it is both of u creating a relationship and maintaining the love between both of u...

good luck
 
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melo

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thanks jeremy for the advice. normally i see from how much each person does for the other, actions can speak many words and his true feelings. becos my partner don really do many nice things for me anymore, now it's more of me doing it. last time when first started out, he did more special things for me, now it's the other way round. i wonder, do people change with time and feelings change.
 
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ladyinwhite

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actually if you see many older couples, their 'love' or spark has already faded. what keeps them still together is the committment!
 
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melo

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thanks ladyinwhite. but i'm afraid that one day the love will fade and become something that is unlivable with. example is my parents who harbour grudges for a very long time, by something each person did. sigh, i dont want to become like my parents.
 
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churvalo

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i dont know,maybe yes because our elationship with God sounds like this:
God loves us more ,then maybe human being do the same
melo said:
I heard that in a relationship, there will always be one partner who love the person more than the other. is that true?
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gizelle

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hmm yea i think it can be true. if you are the one who is receiving more love, i guess that should encourage you to love your partner even more. it will never be balanced, but at least you try to make things equal :)
 
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stardusk

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as long as both people love each other A LOT, it doesn't matter who loves more.

not possible to have complete balance, but when you both love each other a lot, the difference is negligible :)
 
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abigail

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hi melo.. yes i believe this is true.. and i must also say that appreciation is the fuel of every relationship.. keep saying words of appreciation to your partner, and you'll both stick together :)
 
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ellozola

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i do not believe it is true for all relationship. In some case, both partner had love each other as much but some people just duno how to show their love thus leaving the other party thinking that their partner dun love them as much
 
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bling

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on my own opinion, i think there's no "more" or "less" kind of love.. it's just that people are not the same.. they have their own individual ways of expressing their love. What might be best for the other one may not be good enough for the other, thus, leaving the other one the thought that his/her partner doesn't love him/her as much as he/she does.

but believe me, the one that you thought loves lesser strives really hard to meet ur expectations.. I know that feeling. haha!
 
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msmistie

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i don't believe in the concept of who loves the other more. The important thing is you both feel the same for each other.
 
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girlinme

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I also do not believe in that. Loving someone should not be a competition, it is about accepting, supporting and loving another person wholeheartedly.
 
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Jeremyjic

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Well?

I remember long ago, someone said that if a man loves you a bit more than you love him, he will never leave and will always treat you with respect

...what say you?
 
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