marry because of hdb

[partygirl]

does anyone face this pressure? i come from a family who stays in a 2 room unit so i really want my own place, but yet i dont feel ready to marry and for the commitment. should i really do it?

 

[sparkswed]

Hello,

Marriage is for life. And its takes 2 persons to commit it. Please discuss it with your partner.

 

[Selp]

And it will involve in laws. It's far more troublesome than u think

 

[primrose]

nobody should force you ti get married if you're not yet ready.

 

[misspudding]

That's not really a good reason to get married. :/

 

[sassywitchy]

I don't think it's a good idea to get married just because of hdb. You should marry because you are ready to get married and you love another person.

 

[mavis86]

I don't think it is a good idea cos u r still not ready yet.

 

[Mattie]

If you really love and feel like marry that person, you should do it. If you're marrying for any other person, it wouldn't be right.

 

[ericakim]

No reason to marry if not for love...

 

[sparklydiamonds]

well, if that's the case then no

 

[sillymilly]

yeah, some relatives are pressuring me..

 

[babyblue]

No. your marriage will just fail later on if you marry for hdb

 

[hengzo]

If you cant commit or is not ready ,why married ? Marriage is another step of your life whom you will feel different as an individual . Getting married is really lots of commitment . From house , to babies and also relationship staying under one roof with husband . Get married when you feel you want a family , another type of life you are having now . Just my thoughts .

 

[deniseoh]

discuss with your mom!!!

 

[Clavis08]

It's a serious matter so think things through first

 

[fabgal]

well if you feel like you're not ready for it, then don't do it

 

[SeraphinaJoy]

If that's your only reason, then better not marry

 

[demurequeen]

no other reason to marry but love

 

[prettychummy]

if that's the case, then it'd be best if you don't marry yet

 

[SmartyPants]

not a good idea in my opinion too