no flat no marry... do you agree?

[ahkiong84]

Hi

Do you agree with the above topic? Somehow my gf said this to me..
I feel threaten over this comment

 

[purplewings]

hmm. well it's really important that you already have your own place to stay before getting married

 

[glitterati]

I agree. It is really important to get a house to live in first before getting married

 

[Mattie]

I think it is the right demand from her. You should be settled and must have a house before getting married. So you should seriously think about it.

 

[cuddlyhugs]

i gues it's fine to get a flat after wedding

 

[foreverwishes]

not having a living space should not be a hindrance for people who want to get married

 

[liciachai]

That's really have to depend tho. Both of you do not need to worry about not having your own flat after marry. But of course, not having a flat does not mean you cannot get marry, maybe just rent a house first or stay with your parent instead. It is always the best to have a house of your own at the end of the day

 

[champagne]

Your gf wants to feel secured..

 

[twinnies]

It's a reasonable policy for me...

 

[autumnkisses]

well it's important to have a flat before marriage. but i don't agree with no flat, no marry

 

[deniseoh]

well it's important to have a flat before marriage. but i don't agree with no flat, no marry

Yes i agree as well. Having a flat is important but not to the extend that no flat, there will be no marry.

 

[twinnies]

it's not really something you have to follow but it is a better thing to be secured of your future.

 

[kaylaie]

Would be best but not absolutely must have I think..

 

[groovybonnie]

hmm. i guess you should secure a flat first before marrying your gf

 

[poppy1308]

i think she just feels insecure ba. Probably just want you to be committed or at least show her that you're committed to starting a family with her - not saying she wanted kids, a family can consist of the couple only

 

[creamandmallows]

your gf just wants to be secured with your future

 

[smilesandgiggles]

You can live with the in-laws for a couple of months

 

[wenwen1811]

Nowadays flats expensive
Better to get earlier if intend to settle down

 

[groovybonnie]

well having your own home is important, but i don't really agree with no flat no marriage

 

[deniseoh]

yea, its better to stay on ur own than with ur inlaws.