Dear all,
My husband and I ROM in Aug'14. We have our flat renovated and everything done up. However, as I was always oversea due to work, and some other issues, he initiated to go for annulment and using the reason of me refuse to consummate.
He wants to end thing nicely and remain friends after that. I had a hard time begging and crying for the week. Moved back to the new home and he is all gone. Every memories of us being together haunt me like no tomorrow.
He told me to go and sign the paper on the coming week. And mentioned that if we are fated, we would be back together.
I have the following questions :
1) Must I sign on the paper for the annulment?
2) With my signature, does it expedite the process?
3) Can it be cancelled should we get back together before the judgement is out? (This is the most important question)
4) When do we need to inform HDB?
He said he has given up on me. In a way, it was my fault for neglecting him due to work, but I really wanted to do well this year in career and business aspect so that I can start family planning next year. I have some gynae issue which explained why I didn't want to consummate these 2 yrs, however we have done it before we married.
As he is a man with his words, I take it seriously that he would consider getting back together should I be able to change and proved to him that my feeling is real for him.
We were together back in teenage years for about years, broke up and got back together for 9 years. He made up most of my life and I am his first and second gf.. only gf. I really want to work this out. But he insists on signing the paper. He confirmed that there is no 3rd party involved.
Please advise. I am really lost since he initiated. And I have finally manage to pull myself up to ask on forum now.
My husband and I ROM in Aug'14. We have our flat renovated and everything done up. However, as I was always oversea due to work, and some other issues, he initiated to go for annulment and using the reason of me refuse to consummate.
He wants to end thing nicely and remain friends after that. I had a hard time begging and crying for the week. Moved back to the new home and he is all gone. Every memories of us being together haunt me like no tomorrow.
He told me to go and sign the paper on the coming week. And mentioned that if we are fated, we would be back together.
I have the following questions :
1) Must I sign on the paper for the annulment?
2) With my signature, does it expedite the process?
3) Can it be cancelled should we get back together before the judgement is out? (This is the most important question)
4) When do we need to inform HDB?
He said he has given up on me. In a way, it was my fault for neglecting him due to work, but I really wanted to do well this year in career and business aspect so that I can start family planning next year. I have some gynae issue which explained why I didn't want to consummate these 2 yrs, however we have done it before we married.
As he is a man with his words, I take it seriously that he would consider getting back together should I be able to change and proved to him that my feeling is real for him.
We were together back in teenage years for about years, broke up and got back together for 9 years. He made up most of my life and I am his first and second gf.. only gf. I really want to work this out. But he insists on signing the paper. He confirmed that there is no 3rd party involved.
Please advise. I am really lost since he initiated. And I have finally manage to pull myself up to ask on forum now.