Staying with family

[jingjing]

anyone stays with your family? (your side or htb side) how do you cope? I will have to stay with my htb's side soon because my bto is not ready yet..

 

[tylow]

Get to know their habits and get them to know yours too! Have common understandings and frequent conversations to understand what are each others likes and dislikes.

 

[jingjing]

thanks tylow, yea living with any family is give and take

 

[Jecca]

all voices down to give and take

 

[JamesCarri]

I do stay with my htb side family, they are supportive. it's quite good experiment.

 

[Sher]

very common for couples nowadays. to reduce the tension sometimes i stay at my htb's place and he stays at my place on weekends.

 

[lollipop]

on my part, i don't feel awkward because they are like a family to me since i grew up without parents

 

[blessedkiss]

if you're staying with your partner's family, you should really learn to socialize or mingle with them.. and more often than not, it should be a give-and-take relationship

 

[Superman]

give and take... thats the only way to survive.

 

[nats7798]

give and take.. and must learn to be less princess like?

i understand from my WTB that they are quite pampered at home~

 

[butterscotch]

we stayed with the in-laws for about 3 months while waiting for our house to be ready. everything went well because before we married, i have already a close relationship with his family.

 

[swashed]

no way for me man. luckily my partner feels the same way.
actually i wld be ok with it but my partner's family smokes and i really hate smoke in the house. not mention how dirty the bathroom floor will be (his house's bathroom is really really grimy) so nope

 

[candie]

yup. tried it for two months and then we moved to our new house.

 

[floraleprints]

for my mother-in-law, i tried looking for common interests in both of us and then we bonded over that.

 

[0630han]

kinda getting worried and anxious about staying together after marriage. our flat would be coming in another 1 year plus. so definitely be staying together with in-laws.

let's hope that it would be a good experience for everyone to get used to each other.

 

[emmaswan]

when we first met, i tried to give off a friendly atmosphere and began making conversation with them so that when we stayed there while waiting for the house I'm close with them

 

[ohmyvenus]

yeah... had to stay for about 3 weeks with the in-laws. it was fun because i bonded with them.

 

[JohnnyStein]

Yes I am staying with my family and I really feels great to stay with them. Staying with family will let me feel peaceful and supportive. It is a great experience for me.

 

[sassywitchy]

we stayed with my side of the family while waiting for our new house.

 

[smilesandgiggles]

for just a short while for us... about a few weeks. made me bond with his family