whats the next big ting after marriage

cookiesncream

New member
The next big thing after marriage is preparing for parenthood, raising your kids, and of course making sure your relationship will last for eternity :)
 

nicepeople

New member
The next stage is to let nature take in time. You are about to embark your honeymoon. Enjoy it and it will end (if everything is fine) when you and your spouse become mum and dad.
Before that time comes, you need to build a strong marriage foundation. Many marriages today are like building a house upon sand. Building a strong marriage means you must take time to redefine roles, beliefs, and behaviours and negotiate the differences with your partner. Money, time, family traditions (culture), friends (especially of the opposite gender), are just a few of the issues that need to be negotiated. A newly married couple needs a spirit of adventure, because getting married to a ‘stranger’ means that there are going to be a lot of discoveries – night person or morning person such eg.
No matter at what stage a couple enters marriage, they will have issues and conflicts to resolve. A lasting relationship is more possible if both partners continue to grow and develop.
If face with difficulties in your marriage, try to resolve it asap and if the next 6 months you are unable to settle the issue, seek professional help. It helps stop being drafted apart and save the marriage for the sake of the marriage.
 

jeremychew

New member
hmm well housing, house chores and after house chores then got energy then create babies lol...
actually i feel that its the building of the relationship again... as after you got married, there is some changes to be made... unless u have been living together during the relationship.

to me is adapting to married life whereby ur life no longer is that "free" but with committments...
there are good and bad times for sure but then it takes 2 to clap for establishing a new wed relationship
 

aprilfoo

New member
next big thing after marriage?

well, that would be securing a house for you and your spouse. for me, living with in-laws is a bit uncomfortable for your other one.. it would be best to have your own place. Then, you can start preparing yourself for parenthood..
 

saccharine

New member
work work work.. and save for your future family. I believe being stable and being able to provide your future kids with all the good things will make you and your spouse good parents.
 

cyandreams

New member
I think the next big thing would be the birth of your first child. its a testament that you guys are going to start a family together.
 

EthanMason

New member
After marriage, you should understand your responsibilities and be prepare for your new life that begins after marriage. Plan to manage your budget and enjoy with your partner.
 

sassywitchy

New member
I think getting back to a normal life is the next big thing. Then if you decide to have children already then it's a good idea.
 

supergirl

New member
it would be preparing for the future of your own family like getting your own house, planning on having kids, and saving up for your kid's education
 
Top