Is it ok to invite ex to wedding?

[Lindah]

will you feel weird? i will feel weird but i have many common friends with him, so if dont invite him tongues may wag on the dinner table also.

 

[meilingg]

How about your htb? will he mind?

 

[honeydew]

if htb dont mind it's ok, everyone has exes. depends on whether both of you feel comfortable.

 

[Kailing]

i will feel weird. if we are still friends it's ok. otherwise maybe i wont, even if i invite the other friends in our common social circle.

 

[venuspeh]

hmm... see how close u and ur ex after breakup.. but mostly i wont (though they are still my friends).. cos kind of weird.. unless gt things to talk.. LOL

 

[Alp]

Lol, my wtb started the invitation list last week, we were outside sitting at a coffee house and all was in peace when she mentioned inviting her ex! And that guy still likes her! I jumped! Lol I asked her is this your alone wedding? Haha.

 

[Lindah]

hi alp, haha that sounds interesting. wonder if you are preparing 'special treatment' for her ex haha. from a guy's perspective, would you want her to invite her ex? since they are still friends but he still likes her as you said?

 

[Rosalyn]

Yeah... it's an awkward thing...some of the people that knows your ex will ask...

 

[sh0d3n]

better dont invite. its going to be awkward

 

[rain.bow]

Even if my HTB don't mind, I dont think I will.. still feel very awkward... especially with other friends and family..

 

[julieswong]

yeah it's gonna be quite weird i think..

 

[Enigma1612]

If the relationship w the past has already been buried and both have moved o n then the friendship .. y not. but if neither has moved on.. then no pt

 

[nessa]

only if your friendship with them is settled. most ended relationships still have some form of lingering feelings

 

[twinklebell]

It depends on you ex. If he/she is realy gonna mad for you then no need to invite he/her in your wedding. If he/she still your good friend then no problem to invite he/she in wedding.

 

[leslieaudrey]

i don't think it's advisable.

 

[kpi]

Still remember in the past, my ex gf forced me to attend her ex wedding, it was so embarrassing for 3 of us and I broke up with my ex within 1 month.
trust me it is not going to be a happy wedding if 3 person kept staring at each other during the wedding.

 

[Mike1982]

won't want to get into such sticky situation, if it's me..
rather having such awkard moment, best is don't invite.

 

[kpi]

I think the mtv below sums up my ex feelings towards her ex.
Do not want to end up in the same ending as the mtv.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Gji_GtyCNo&feature=related

 

[bighearts]

if things between you and your ex are settled and you still remain good friends (clearly with no special feelings anymore), i think it's okay to invite him. but! that is if it's okay for your husband too.

 

[RCherry]

I don't think that it's okay...