Have you quarreled with your Hubby to be over wedding preparations?
- Thread starter rainbow
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I only quarrel with him because he seemed like dun care, cannot be bothered, everything let me do myself.. even the wedding ring, initally, he everything ask me to ask..
I think most important is that you sit down with him and then calmly explain WHY you are angry and HOW it makes you angry and then SUGGEST what you want to do and then COMPROMISE.
Getting married le hor, no point over 1 day event then quarrel.
I think most important is that you sit down with him and then calmly explain WHY you are angry and HOW it makes you angry and then SUGGEST what you want to do and then COMPROMISE.
Getting married le hor, no point over 1 day event then quarrel.
I told my htb he has to plan the wedding with me.. or else i will take his card and buy the most expensive bridal package and rings hahaha. I guess for the smaller tasks like getting wedding favors, finding and research good bridal packages i will do all that cos my htb also blur one dunno how to see all these lol. then only make the decision with him on big ticket items.
summersnow
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cannot let relationship get affected by this. getting married is supposed to be happy thing haha
anniesfaith
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I ever gets angry over my HTB at the earlier stage (when i feels so stressed over getting married). Because of my stress, i somehow feels that he seems so relaxed and he dont bother. But infact, it is not like that. It is because i mood-swing due to the stress. Hahahas. Well, i talk things out. And later, he really shows more concern and really put in effort for the preparation. He drive me around whenever i need things to be done. He willing to spent time to stay with me even tho he knews that it makes no value even if he is there. Well, sometimes the men dont get it if you didnt say it out. They can be quite gundu u know?
pastelpink
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confirm will argue lah...both parties oso suddenly like dump into so many things to do. suddenly how to spend the money on wat type of wedding will oso quarrel one...
I think he just want to play safe...
i've learnt that a wedding is as much yours, as it is your husband-to-be's. Hence, you have to understand what is it he looks for in a wedding. find out what's the most important, the deal breakers, and the things he don't care about. once you understand what matters to him, you can better understand why he's so bo chup about certain things. it might be because the wedding don't matter to him, because he's already happy that he's gonna spend the rest of his life with you, and that the wedding itself don't matter.