My bridesmaid is getting out of control.

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imjalar

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My sister is my MOH and has been really supportive and said no matter what dress, hair or makeup i pick for her she will be happy as that's what i want.

My best friend who's my bridesmaid is driving me crazy. All she talks about is how she wants HER hair, HER makeup and what style of dress SHE wants. I want them to have natural elegant makeup. She wants a slinky sexy dress, i want a nice knee length chiffon dress.

Everything i send her pictures of she disagrees with and sends me pictures of glammed up models she wants. Now all she is talking about is her wedding, she doesn't have a boyfriend so i don’t know why she is doing this.

I'm not being unreasonable and I’ve let them have input into what they want but she is driving me crazy, i would never put them in anything that didn't suit them both.

I don’t know what to do Anyone else experienced this?
 
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lkfghte

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It's sad...she's probably just feeling bad about the fact she is single. Unfortunately we are conditioned as women to think the ultimate thing to

achieve in life is to get married....try to have some empathy for her. When you are single and having to focus on someone else who has everything

you don't...it can bring out the worst in otherwise good people. (assuming this selfish behavior is not normal!!)
 
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iddress

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Who is paying for the dress?

I ask because as much as it is your day, if she is footing the bill for the dress it is fair she has at least some input to what she will be buying.

Though even if that is the
 
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indress

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Who is paying for the dress?

I ask because as much as it is your day, if she is footing the bill for the dress it is fair she has at least some input to what she will be buying.

Though even if that is the
 
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jennylin07

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im worst!

I asked my gf to be my bridesmaid and she scream at me saying it is 1 year later, and she say she might need to work or sleep. dont make my problem her problem.

And i know she is single and she hates guys. LOL weird eh.
 
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flint1225

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i absolutely agree with lukesky! u dun have time for ppl who care more about their sleep than being a good fren on ur most imp day! *wth
 
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donelpascualmakeup

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i am sorry but if your "best friend" is acting like this to you, then i wonder if she can be called a friend after all. a true friend is someone who is supposed to be happy for her bestfriend's special day and not being a pain in the a** to you. after all, it's your wedding and you own that day. what's up with her?
 
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sassywitchy

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Instead of the bridezilla, we have here a bridesmaidzilla. Honesty is always a good thing to go about things. Just tell her to dial down on the excitement.
 
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Bel123

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Be more assertive. Don’t ask for her opinion. For instance, just tell her, I’m getting thus dress for all the bridesmaid, what’s your size? Or let her choose just the colors
 
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