Serious Cleanliness/Hygiene Peeve with your future mum-in law?

[poshberries]

Hi, anyone ever encounter someone with :scared: serious cleanliness or hygiene peeve? Does it cause any issue in your daily lives or create unnecessary problems to yourself or the family? Care to share with me, I am keen to know more. If not convenient to share via posts, can also PM me at mphosis_spree@hotmail.com and thanks!

 

[ribena]

hm, my mil always like to mess up my tables.. i arrange nice nice already then when i come home it's messy again. then she will say to me 'why you so messy'. LOL. is that counted?

 

[poshberries]

hm, my mil always like to mess up my tables.. i arrange nice nice already then when i come home it's messy again. then she will say to me 'why you so messy'. LOL. is that counted?

Hi Ribena, thks for replying. I do not think that counted. Your case is more like a disciplinary issue. I have encountered someone with "super" hygiene peeve issues which are really huge concerning problems...lolz!

 

[seoche]

Me, myself i dont like a messy things. so if in case my mother in law is like me. well for sure we will never have a problem

 

[pastelpink]

don't stay with the in laws then no problem. everyone got their own ways of living so very difficult to stay under one roof together...

 

[Sharon89]

my future MIL bath once daily, she like to keep on stir the soup or dish with her own spoon ( the spoon is full of rice ).

she like to split all long the road due to her throat problem. she will angry if you advice her to use tissue.

Is this counted ?

 

[Enigma1612]

yup for my HTB, his mum is single mother busy with her own business. tends to be really nua in housework. Until i could not take it one day. Decide to clean it and i saw many cockroaches in the kitchen. Last straw quarrel with HTB over the issue of not staying in his house while waiting for bto to be ready.

 

[blur blur gal]

actually i can understand coz i m v particular abt cleaniness like fm outside rch home MUST go n wash hands etc..but his family...u noe wat i mean..if i have the choice i also dun wan to stay at his hse while waiting for my hse to get ready in 2014

 

[Enigma1612]

A lot of times requires some give n take element. after all marrying to another family means accepting the differences and deviating from ur own values.

 

[Tenshi]

poshberries errrr why dun you look at the other point is that lucky she is clean better then she is dirty.

like that you might feel better.

 

[Enigma1612]

Yup since I thought over I would not be staying with my future MIL n shes been used to living in a trash. cant change her overnite either her lifestyle. just stay separate n it should not interrupt withmy marriage life. occasionally visit n say hello should b just fine.

 

[Enigma1612]

After a while, the cleanliness bit . each family has their own way n standards. Much as I wont want to compromise i just to keep my area clean.. Cant avoid staying for about 6 months after customary wedding while pending for BTo to be completed n renovated.