My JP send me a list of vows that I can add on to! Instead of saying "I do" and "I will" I got something in mind, like "I will be your support, your best friend... blah blah blah blah"
ohhh i see. i think the vows that we have to memorize is long enuff already! so afraid i will forget them on the day itself, being so nervous and such.
and i still like "i Do" the most. super short, but encompasses so much, carries so much weight!
the vows are written on paper and you just have to read them loud. There should not be a need to use our brain to memorize them unless your version of vows are personalized.
I've heard really interesting personalized vows like "After today, it's no longer iPhone but a WePhone" etc etc... If you are writing your own personalized vows, it doesn't have to memorized; you can write them on a piece of paper for you to read out on your big day. don't really want the additional stress from needing to memorize!